Tuesday 21 August 2012

Well, who knew that daily (let alone weekly or monthly) blogging would be so tough!  I seem to spend a lot of time on the computer, but alas, it is simply to play games, check emails and keep up with friends on facebook.  To spend extra time blogging would keep me at the computer way too long!  Oh well, I will try to update my summer so far and spend less time playing games.

After the first week of July, the sun came out and has basically been shining since then with a few odd days of dullness and rain.  I actually bought the bathing suit that I was looking at, at the Bay...on sale for once!!  I have only worn it a few times this summer because it is like a one-piece even though it's two pieces, and I've been trying to get an all-over tan...well, as all-over as I can without tanning in the nude and giving my neighbours a show!

Mom, Bob (my brother), and I went out to our cabin at Stuart Lake on July 12th for six days, and the sun shone the whole time.  Considering that we haven't had that much sun, the lake water was surprisingly warm.  I sat in the sun and swam every day, and my tan took a huge leap forward.  Bob built us an outdoor shower with hot water in abundance (The water comes from the lake and is warmed by a small heater.), and we all had a turn by the end of the week.  Although I was swimming every day, it was nice to have a hot shower and really lather up.

The day after I returned from the lake (July 18), I played bridge with the girls at Beth Quesnel's place.  Beth has taken Sarah Cunningham's place since Sarah and her husband moved to Victoria.  He is Deputy Minister of something or other, so they needed to be in Victoria full-time.  They kept their beautiful home in PG for now and are renting it out.  Anyway, Beth, Louise (my sister-in-law) and Marina Tobin and I played bridge and had a lot of fun.  I am not the most confident player, but Louise gave me a pep talk and said that I was just as good as Beth and just needed to quit running myself down.  I don't usually run myself down - I think the problem is that I don't like letting someone else down, and in bridge, you have a partner who is depending on you to play well.  At any rate, it was a good reminder to buck up and stop feeling inadequate.  Subsequently, I have stopped my negative talk during bridge (although a few sorries did slip out now and again), and my playing has improved immensely!  A good lesson for me.

I watched a fabulous movie with Mom on the Friday after bridge (July 20) called The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.  What a great movie with so many great actors.  I was laughing from the get-go.  Such a good story and so neat to see the landscapes of India.  I would highly recommend seeing this movie.

On Saturday, July 21st, Mom and I went to Mavis Bartell's place for coffee.  She had her daughter, Jane, and two other friends, Lil Evanoff and Ann Decker.  I went to high school with both Lil and Anne's daughters, so it was great to catch up and hear what they are doing these days.  Jane is six or seven years younger than me, and Mavis reminded us of the time that I helped out at Jane's birthday party when they lived on the same street as us.  Good memories.

On Sunday, Niels came by with his son-in-law's luxurious BMW motorcycle, and we drove out to his son Mark's place.  Mark and Shawna were digging out a new garden in their front lawn, so we offered our opinions while sipping lemonade in the sun and watching Mark sweat it out with the shovel!
After our visit, we drove to Craig and Tanya's, and Niels switched back to his regular motorcycle.  After I got home, I spent the evening washing and ironing clothes in preparation for my trip to Vancouver to visit my daughter Melanie.

On July 24th I drove to Vancouver and stayed at Melanie's place - a three bedroom basement suite off of Main St. that she shares with three other guys.  Apparently she scrubbed and cleaned for days so that I would feel comfortable.  I felt like I was back in my university days having to share the bathroom with four others.  Surprisingly, it worked out just fine.

Melanie and I spent the first day shopping on Main St.  I bought her a dress and some hair accessories for her birthday and managed to buy a bracelet and earrings for myself.  I met Colm, Melanie's boyfriend, when we went for dinner at The Cray.  He is a super nice guy with super good taste - he's dating my daughter after all!  But also, as it happened, I bought the exact same sunglasses that day that he had bought a few weeks before - too funny.
Melanie and I trying on hats:

How to eat crayfish:
Colm and I and our identical sunglasses:


On Thursday, July 26th, Melanie and I had brunch at a place on Main.  The waitress was very nice but very clumsy.  First of all, she dumped the coffee cream on top of my lap - thankfully, I was wearing shorts and the cream mainly hit my bare legs.  Melanie asked the manager if we could have the coffee for free and he agreed.  Then after I had finished my lunch and Melanie was still finishing hers, I went to the washroom.  When I came back, the waitress was sweeping up two broken plates that she had dropped while trying to clear the table.  I know it was kind of harsh of me, but I burst out laughing.  The couple at the next table who had watched all this from the beginning were laughing as well - the poor waitress.  I gave her a good tip to make up for her bad experience with us.  After lunch, Melanie and I hit Kits beach.  The first place we sat on the beach, we had three university students start to throw a frisbee around in front of us.  It was bad enough that we had to watch that we weren't bonked by the frisbee, but then we had to listen to their inane talk and watch their silly flirting.  When I couldn't stand it anymore, we packed our things and found another spot, which turned out to be even nicer and much closer to the water.  After I had a swim, Melanie waded out to a raft to cool down.  She didn't want to swim because she thought the water wasn't clean enough with all the ships.  Didn't bother me though.  That evening we met up with my niece and Melanie's cousin, Emilie.  We went to a really cool little pizza place, and the pizza was the best I've tasted since Melanie and I went to Italy.  It was so great to catch up with Emilie, and she even showed us her workspace and studio.

On Friday, Melanie went to work, and Janice Clements picked me up to go visit Karen Houg at her house in Delta.  Janice, Karen and I, along with Joyce (Reid) Douglas used to hang out together in high school.  After a quick (sort of ) visit to Ikea, we arrived just in time for drinks and appies at Karen and Brian's place.
Janice, Karen and I:




 They have the most beautiful back yard and garden, and the sun came out again just for us.  After a wonderful meal and visit, Janice and I stayed overnight in the guest rooms.  In the morning, I had some of the blueberry cobbler that Karen had made for dessert the previous night - with ice cream and coffee, I was set for the day!   :)  When I got back to Melanie's, I found out that she had agreed to take on an extra shift and would be working until 11 pm.  I quickly decided to head to Gibsons that day rather than the next, so I took the bus down to M's work, bought some chocolate and flowers for Gail and took my car.  I packed up and headed to Horshoe Bay and caught the 4:30pm ferry to the Sunshine Coast.  I arrived at Gail's in time for dinner with her and Glenn.  We had a delicious pasta dish and salad with a lovely glass of wine.

On Sunday (29th), Glenn was working, so Gail took me around to the beaches and sights of Gibsons.  There was some kind of sea festival happening in town when we arrived, so the main street was closed to traffic.  We managed to catch an airshow in between our shopping.  I found a really cool picture of egrets that I bought for my brother Bob (for looking after my dog) and a sterling silver and turquoise ring for me.  Gail and I ended up trying on the same pair of pants in red and because they looked great on both of us, we bought them.  Twins for sure!  After we replenished our strength with a double gelato cone, we headed to Seachelt to visit Gail's mom.  Then it was home again to have a drink before dinner on Gail's lovely back deck.  After a greaaat chicken dinner, we relaxed by the TV with cookies and tea and watched the Olympics (diving).  Jane, Gail's eldest daughter, arrived around 9:30 that evening.  After a quick visit, it was off to bed.

Gail:

Me on Gospel Rock:


Airshow:

Happy hour at Gail's (After seeing her plastic chairs that she painted red, I have decided to paint my chairs at home red too!):



On Monday, Glenn, Gail, Jane and I toured some more beaches and then hiked up Soames Hill.  At the top, there is a gorgeous view of Gibsons and the ocean - well worth the hike.  After the hike, we headed  to the marina in Gibsons and had a great lunch of fish and chips.  Then we headed  home to sit in the sun, have a coffee and to prep for dinner.  Dinner was delicious hamburgers and potato salad, and corn, and leftover salad, and wine...and...we were stuffed!  As a result, Glenn, Gail and I went for a walk around the neighborhood and checked out all the houses for sale.  I can't believe how many there were!

On the beach:

 Beachcombing:


Hike up Soames Hill:


 At the top:

Tuesday we toured Roberts Creek and Seachelt and had another great lunch overlooking the ocean in Seachelt.  When we got back home, I slowly packed up and helped Gail water her neighbour's flowers.  I took some final pictures of Gail's house and then after a few hugs and tears, I left to catch the afternoon ferry back to Vancouver.  Melanie was with Colm when I arrived home, so I bought some takeout sushi to eat for dinner.  When I arrived at the house, I had put sheets in the dryer and make the bed!  sheeesh  My sweet daughter didn't come home until the next morning.

Artwork on concrete at Roberts Creek:




Beach combing:
 Bye to Gail's house :(



On Wednesday, August 1st, we had coffee and a muffin and then headed out downtown for some serious shopping.  I ended up buying a couple of tops at different shops and some cute boyfriend jeans at the Gap.  Then at my favorite shop, Club Monaco, I bought a pair of brown skinny jeans, a creamy-white, soft shirt, a belt, and a lovely, loose, golden brown sweater.....so nice!  We had dinner at an East Indian restaurant on Davie St., which was closed to traffic because of the Celebration of Light that was happening that evening.  After much debate, Melanie and I decided to fight the crowds and head down to English Bay to watch the fireworks.  I'm so glad we did.  The fireworks show put on by Brazil was FANTASTIC!  Well worth jostling people on the streets, in lineups and on the bus home.




Thursday morning we had brunch at Sophie's on 4th Ave.  Melanie's friend Kat (originally from Russia) joined us, and we had a great meal.  We did a little shopping and then M. and I had to go because M had an appointment at 3pm.  While she was at her appointment, I checked out the shops on Granville.  When I picked Melanie up, we went back to Granville and I bought a cute pair of polka dot skinny jeans and a gold top in Anthropologie.  Definitely done shopping at that point 'cause I'd spent way too much. Hahahahah, did I say I was done?  Naaaaah  I found a beautiful wicker basket for magazines at Pottery Barn that I knew would be just perfect for Mom's bathroom, sooooo I had to buy it.  Forced into it, yes I was.  We met Colm at his work, Cafe Crepe, and after watching him make some crepes and waiting for him to finish his shift, we headed down to Melanie's workplace, Urban Fare in Olympic Village.  We had decided to have dinner at the Tap and Barrel nearby because Colm wanted to try out their potato beer, and I needed to buy some Rogers chocolates for Mom and Bob.  We had a great dinner and even saw some celebrities - Jensen Ackles (from the TV series Supernatural) and Jared Padalecki (from Gilmore Girls series).  We laughed about going over to their table and bugging them, but as we were leaving, Jensen went by us into the washroom.  I decided that I would be brave and wait for him to come out and ask for a picture.  Well, he came out and I asked if he would  "humour a crazy, old lady."  Well, he graciously said that I only looked 26 (choke, choke...but, hey I figure, if he was going 10-20 years younger to be on the safe side, that's still at least 10 years younger than my actual age, so I must look pretty good for my age!) and agreed to a picture.



Not a good picture of me, but he's darn cute!


Thursday 5 July 2012

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Yay!  The sun is finally shining, and my lawn is crying out to be mowed...but I also have a bathing suit, that may or may not be on sale, to check out.  Which means that I need to move away from the computer and get my act in gear!  Shopping comes first methinks.  No sense getting all dirty and sweaty and having to clean up to go shopping.  I'll just jump in some clothes, throw some makeup on (Girls with clear skin don't realize just how lucky they are!) and head out.  I also have to look for a birthday gift for my sweet nephew, Lucas.  He'll be turning 9 years old on the 9th of this month, and right after his birthday, he and his brother Max and their mom Corinne are heading to France!  Corinne's parents live in the south of France, so they head there every summer to visit.  Paul, my youngest brother and Corinne's husband, goes with them every other year, and this is his stay-at-home year.

                  Well enough blogging and time to get on with the day!

Wednesday 4 July 2012

Wednesday,  July 4th

May the fourth be with you!  Sorry, I just couldn't resist.  Happy Independence Day to all my American friends!

Another dull day although the sun came out after dinner and it's looking pretty nice right now!  I had Mom over for leftover moussaka.  With Greek salad, rice and bread, it was a tasty dinner if I do say so myself.

My day was rather dull - I spent most of the morning fiddling around with this blog.  I've decided that I'm not very creative when it comes to layouts.  However,  - I plan to visit my friend Gail next week and she is a blogger extraordinaire, so she should be able to help me create something aesthetically pleasing.  Then I need to learn how to post pictures.  Such fun but definitely a drain on time....oh, but then I've got all the time in the world these days!!  :)
Hopefully, tomorrow will be sunny so that I can mow the lawn and work on my tan!

Well, there you go!  I figured out how to post a picture all by myself - I'm so proud of me!  This is my favorite lilac tree in the neighborhood - wish it was in my yard, but at least I get to see it as I drive home every day.
Well, this is completely new to me.  A blog of my own.  Seems weird, but I thought I would like to chronicle my year off and share some of my experiences whether they be dull and mundane or adventurous and exciting.  I am four days into my year off, and I still can't quite believe it.  It is so freeing knowing that I can do whatever I want whenever I want (within reason, of course!)

On my first day off (Saturday, June 30, 2012) I could have slept in like I usually do, but I didn't!  Just knowing that I didn't have to go to work on Monday, or Tuesday, or ANY day for that matter for 14 WHOLE MONTHS, has made such a difference. I actually got up before 10 am (shocker, as any of my friends can tell you!) and went for coffee with my mom and her friend.  After coffee, we headed over to the Bay and checked out the clothes.  I tried on some bathing suits, and one actually looked really cute, but it cost like $150 just for the top!!!!  So, I wisely decided to wait to see if it will go on sale.  Mary, my favorite saleswoman, advised me to wait because she thought it might go on sale this Thursday.  We shall see if it is still there this Thursday.  I am notoriously not good at getting things on sale, so with this kind of luck, I'll be surprised if the suit is still there on Thursday.  Like I said, we shall see.  I ended up buying a white pair of skinny jeans and some blush from Clinique that I needed.

Mom and I had planned to check out Winners after lunch, but we both ran out of steam.  Instead, I took my dog, Benny, for a walk and then headed home for a nap.  How luxurious to nap and not feel guilty about it!

Sunday, July 1st - Canada Day!

Today I visited my good friends Mindy and Ian who live by Fort George Park, which is where all the Canada Day activities take place.  Needless to say, the streets were packed with cars and people coming and going from the park.  Although there were dark clouds in the sky, the weather held out until about 4:00 pm when it started to lightly rain.  Luckily, Mindy has a lovely glass greenhouse with comfy chairs inside, so we all sat amongst the greenery sipping our pink lemonades (with gin, of course!).  Pink lemonade is something that has such good memories for me - it was definitely a childhood favorite, and now I think it will be my new favorite summer drink!   

After a lovely old-fashioned chicken with stuffing, mashed potatoes and gravy dinner at Mom's (I contributed the salad.), I headed home to watch t.v.  I decided to take my laptop into bed with me even though I always stay up way later than I should when I do that...but who cares, I have no obligations now and I can sleep in as long as I want!!  

Anyway, just after midnight, I could hear some fireworks starting up in the neighborhood.  All of a sudden, I heard two VERY loud bangs, and I thought, "Wow, this must be some spectacular show!"  I jumped up to look out the window, but didn't see anything out of the ordinary in the sky.  I briefly wondered if it might have been gun shots, but laughed that off because I live in a very nice area.  Well, was I ever wrong...or right, I should say...the very next day I found out that there had been a drive-by shooting just down the street!!  This is the stuff I read about in the news, and it's happening in our middle class, suburban, sleepy neighborhood!!  Well, I should backtrack.  We did get a new neighbor a few years ago who was rumored to be a part of a motorcycle gang.  We all wondered if it was a good or bad gang at the time...now I'm thinking, not so good.  Apparently, someone came by and shot out the top window of the house and then ditched the rifle on the street - now, I'm no crime sleuth, but I'm thinking that's a pretty weird thing to do.  Who leaves the weapon behind...unless they're trying to incriminate someone else perhaps?  Who knows.  The incident has certainly stirred up our little neighborhood though.

Monday, July 2, 2012

A lazy, dazy, drizzly dayI don't think I have ever been this white at this time of the year!  My summer tan is seriously lacking!  Oh well, I guess it's nice that I don't have to water the lawn.  My flowers are looking a bit forlorn though.  

After walking the dog, I visited my good friend Niels.  He had a spot cut out of his forehead that had been bothering him for years.  He told me that he had some swelling, so I was expecting to see him not looking like himself.  However, I was totally shocked when I saw him.  He not only had huge blue stitches and huge swelling, but also had some major infection happening!  I felt so sorry for him because he was also struggling with a headache.  Luckily, he was seeing the surgeon the next day to get the stitches out, so I knew it would be okay.  Just to be on the safe side, however, he decided to go to the walk-in clinic to get some antibiotics.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Well, Niels got his stitches out and the doctor told him that she was shocked that it got infected - apparently only happens to 1 in 100....well, now it's 2 in 100!

Another rainy day today...getting a little tired of the rain.  Oh well, I guess I'm going to have to stop waiting for the sun and just carry on. I'm sure that the rain doesn't stop people who live in Vancouver or Seattle - if it did, they'd be indoors all the time!

I didn't do too much today other than laundry and walking the dog.  My dog Benny is 16 years old.  He's a black poodle that I bought for my daughter, but unfortunately in the brief period I had him before surprising my daughter, he bonded with me.  But then again, I was the one that seemed to feed and walk him all the time!  Anyway, he is now almost blind and practically deaf, and some days he stiffens up with arthritis.  But then some days, he's as frisky as a puppy!  At any rate, I love him dearly, and dread the day when he's not around.